Why Getting Kids Involved With Cleaning House Is The Best Thing Ever


A clean, organized house. Small people. It sounds like this two things are an instant clash – two things that can never exist together at any one time, as scores of exasperated parents can attest. Yet it turns out the two don’t have to be mutually exclusive. There are ways to get children of all ages involved in sorting, organizing and keeping a clean house – without making it seem like a punishment.

In fact, involving kids from a young age with the housework is highly beneficial. Not only does it get them into positive habits that will work in their favor for decades to come, but it also gives them a sense of making a contribution, and therefore being a valid member of the tribe who has a stake in things. A lot of toddler temper tantrums are due to an evolving desire to control the environment around them, so giving choices and autonomy within controlled boundaries can help with this.


Make It Age Appropriate

Half the battle is finding jobs around the house which are age-appropriate for children to handle. If you have a pre-schooler, keep it simple. You won’t be expecting them to do fence painting or rug cleaning just yet – that’s best left to adults or professionals like the Austin Fence Company – Fence Repair & Installation! This is the age when play and practicalities can be mixed to great effect. Kids this age generally enjoy helping to sort laundry into whites, colors and darks, watering the plants, dusting down and wiping surfaces with spray cleaner and a damp cloth or even setting the table for dinner. Older children can tackle more complex jobs. Taking care of pets, collecting the mail, unloading and putting away groceries, sorting out recycling and making beds can all be introduced. To keep things fun, try playing music or singing songs as you work together.


Create a To-Go Kit

Instead of scrabbling around for supplies, use a caddy to make a to-go cleaning kit that lives in each room, ready to go. The contents of the kit will vary from room to room. Include cleaning solutions, a cloth or sponge and a roll of bin bags to sweep up waste as you go. If you’re short on time, combine tasks – have kids clean the bath as they sit in it, while you tackle the sink and toilet. It’s easy to find printable cleaning charts online that you can print out, and use colorful stickers to let children put next to jobs they have helped with. This system can easily be linked with behavior and reward charts too.


Take A Step Back

If you like things done a certain way, it can be tempting to hover and over-control what your kids are doing. But the key to success is to encourage and only guide gently. Giving clear instructions at the outset can help with this. It’s about teaching responsibilities, and you can’t do that effectively with too much interference. If it means things aren’t done perfectly to begin with, get comfortable with that! The reward of sharing the burden and raising empowered, houseproud children will be well worth it in the long run.


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19 thoughts on “Why Getting Kids Involved With Cleaning House Is The Best Thing Ever

  1. These are good tips. I do recall when we were kids my idea of dusting the coffee table was to put a cloth under me and spin around and around!

  2. One of my grandkids loves to clean! A few months ago, he decided to clean out and reorganize my coat closet and I was amazed at what a great job he did. I think it’s great for kids to learn age appropriate cleaning chores at an early age.

  3. All of our kids helped clean kitchen and bathrooms. Plus other areas of the house. Kids should work along side their parents and be taught.

  4. I do try to get my kids to help out with the cleaning. They do a pretty good job for the most part. I need to tell them they need to tidy up their rooms! Both are pretty messy.

  5. I totally agree. We had our kids involved at an early age and now our granddaughters even help out when they come over. It’s always been a family thing to take care of our home.

  6. I definitely agree, getting kids involved in chores shows them how to be responsible. Also makes them understand that a clean house requires work!

  7. When my kids were younger they LOVED to clean the house! haha They would argue over who got to mop the floor! Nowadays, they are arguing about the same thing, but about who doesn’t want to do it! haha

  8. I need to be better about having my kids do chores. Thanks for the ideas. We need to get back into a routine with the start of the new school year.

  9. These are wonderful tips. I agree that’s it’s so important to include the kiddos in cleaning. My mom also included us growing up.

  10. One of the best days ever was when my son started taking out the trash! Working on my little girl now with dishes. It’s great to include the kids in the every day chores.

  11. These are really good tips. My kids are 6 year and 9 year old they don’t do much of chores. only few of them. I will use your tip to make them help to clean the house.

  12. My niece likes to help out with the house chores. She is 4 and is learning. Sometimes it’s difficult but it’s fun when she enjoys it.

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